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Another hit blog service is the renowned Blogger, which Google itself took under its wing. Blogger allows the novice and experienced blogger to broadcast their thoughts and opinions while maintaining a clean, simple-to-use posting function. Besides choosing from a wide variety of blog templates, bloggers can join communities and discuss issues they have in common.

Blogs are not only a creative facet of the Web, they’re highly influential. Many blogs are political in nature or are founded for social commentary purposes. Blog owners have a number of ways to track where their readers are coming from and which posts got the most hits. According to industry statistics, about 12 million American adults owned or utilized blogs, a staggering number. Blog services offer a place for writers of all ages, interests and technological levels. A politician has a place to express their views so much as a teenager in high school and judging from the number of blogs circulating the Net, they aren’t going to lose edge anytime soon.
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But, in order to be our best, we need to learn how to manage the flood of fragmented information and the frenzy of instant accessibility. To serve our clients most effectively, to nurture our personal relationships, to think clearly about what matters most, to tend our health and happiness, we need to learn when and how to disengage from the grid – even if for short amounts of time.

So this week, try to do some of the following: turn off your email alerts (or leave your email program closed for 2 hours each afternoon). If you subscribe to blogs, newsfeeds, etc, set them to come in once a week instead of once a day. Put your phone on Do Not Disturb for an hour or two while working on a particularly important pleading or contract.

Try turning off your cell phone when you get home in the evening (or at least during dinner). Turn off your phone when you’re at your kid’s game. Or turn off your computer early one or two nights a week and get back to a hobby or a family activity you used to enjoy (or don’t spend as much time with as you’d like).

By unplugging your communications technology for even short periods of time, you’ll gain focus (by reducing interruptions) and presence (the experience of being in the moment more fully).

Unless we establish attitudinal and behavioral boundaries to protect ourselves from the downside of the “always-on” milieu, we’re at the mercy of the “technological imperative.” Life is brief enough as it is. You can slow it down here and there (and reap the benefits of doing so), by selectively unplugging from the grid.
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Let’s start exploring her from top to bottom:

(1) Hair
Women take a lot of pride in their hair. They like men to use their hands to stroke their hair. Let your fingers massage circles from her temples to the back of her neck.

(2) Lips
If you know how to manipulate her lips just through kissing, licking, sucking and biting, it is very possible that a kiss will lead to a lot more than that. Use your lips, tongue and your teeth to play with her top and bottom lip and kiss her with absolute passion.

(3) Ears
Many women enjoy having their ears licked, sucked or kissed. Touching, kissing and even lightly biting the ear lobes of your woman will make her feel special.

(4) Back of her neck
Once you can get to this area, place a few light kisses there. There is also a good place to start giving her some sensual massage that she can find it hard to resist.

(5) Collar bone
When you begin to undress your woman, you should take the time to kiss and lick her collar bone. The reason for this is because it sends the feel good hormones to her brain.

(6) Wrists
This may comes as a surprise to most guys but women love having their wrists nuzzled and nibbled by their lovers.

(7) Palms of her hands
Tracing your finger along her palm will give her some delightful shivers. This is a good way to start stimulating her and gradually bring her into the mood when out on the street.

(8) Breasts
The breasts are very sexually sensitive such that gentle fondling, squeezing, caressing, licking and sucking of the nipples can be extremely arousing. Depending on how sensitive the woman is, after stroking the nipples for a while, you can see them get hardened and erected just like penis.

(9) Pelvis
Kissing and licking around her pelvis will excite her until she begs for more.

(10)Buttocks
Lots of women like it when you play around with their behinds. A lot of women like mild spanking and squeezing of their buttocks. But some women like having their butts lick and suck.

(11)Behind her knees
Most men don’t know that this area is quite sensitive. Gently caressing the back of the knee under her skirts while both of you are in a public place will make her ready for action once you reach home.

(12)Inner thighs
If you want to tease your girl before having sex, just focus on kissing and rubbing her inner thighs will turn her on.

(13)Feet
Many women enjoy having their feet touched, massaged and some even enjoy having them licked and sucked. Women enjoy it when their men spend time caressing their soles, toes and ankles. Because these zones can be quite ticklish, the sensation of ticklishness can be quite pleasant for her.

(14)Vagina/Clitoris
The clitoris (which is a small protrusion just above the opening of the vagina) can be stimulated by using the tongue or finger. When a woman is aroused, blood will flow to the clitoris, making the protrusion more pronounced. In the vagina, there is the so-called G-spot that can produce intense sexual feelings when stimulated. It is located about 2 inches inside the vagina on the topside (near to the underside of her stomach).

These are the pleasure points on a woman’s body that can turn her on. Not every woman is the same. Some women have some preference areas that they like to be stimulated while others have some no-go areas. As you explore, you will learn which places your touch has the best effect on and which you should avoid.

The critical thing to remember is when it comes to sex, every woman is different. You can do everything right. You can make all the right moves with your fingers, lips and tongue and still not able to drive her crazy.

There are 2 things you should take note:

(1) Pay attention
When you try to find out about her pleasure points that are applicable to her, you shouldn’t just do it mechanically. You need to listen to changes in her breathing, the way her skin softens and her muscles tighten, the way her blood flushes beneath her skin in her face and breasts, the way she moans.

(2) Stay connected
She needs to feel connected in order to feel relaxed with you. Look up at her and make eye contact once in a while. Stop and tell her how much you are enjoying it or how hot you think it is. Reach up and stroke the side of her face and hair. Take her hands and give them a gentle squeeze. You don’t have to do all these things and you don’t have to do them all the time. Just give her a few signs every few minutes and watch what happen immediately afterwards. First, her body will relax into what you are doing and then very quickly she will have a much more intense orgasm.
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Two women teeter down the vertiginous stairs. Both look in their 40s, are well dressed and wearing high heels, the weapon of choice for the forty-something predatory female. The blonde one carries a briefcase and visibly sways as she veers towards a pillar to steady her, the heels are so high, black, shiny patent leather, a Dominatrix’ vicious delicious dream. She looks a bit mix-matched, as she is wearing a stern below the knees black business suit. The other one is dark haired, dressed in skinny jeans and a sequined backless top. Both are beautifully groomed and made up.

Both are also very visibly drunk. The dark haired woman lurches towards the bench and asks in a loud syrupy voice

“How do I get home? I need to get the Northern Line.”

The young students sitting next to me tell her to take the next train one stop to Moorgate and change.

“Oh, I’m going South? I thought I was going North…” I wonder how she is going to make it home.

The kids, who are stone cod sober pick up on her accent, one of them is a fellow Joburger.

They start some banter, she tells them she is a doctor and that one of the boys has a sticky outy problem. He is pierced and 2 scary looking metal spikes protrude from below his lower lip. It isn’t a good look, she persists, never mind the problems with bacteria.

“I love my man,” she sounds young and lovestruck, for a moment. The harshness and botox enhanced face grow softer, “But I ‘ll never tell him.”

She is satisfied that she has found the answer to her own dilemma.

“You could tell him when you get home,” suggests the young South African woman, who is without spikes.

“Oh no, he doesn’t live with me, darling, he lives in his own home. I’d never tell him, you tell a woman and it’s like, right. That’s it then. You never tell a guy. We so different, men and women. But I might give him one of those terrible phone-calls when I get home, you know and tell him he is in for something great.

You know what you had last night? Well that was nothing…wait and see what you got coming next.”

The train pulls up. I am pleased the students are boarding the same one, at least she’ll make it to the next stop where she has to change. The blonde one steers herself with a great deal of concentration into the train and then falls into a heap onto a chair. She is out of her head. What are these women drinking to runaway away from?

What lies we tell ourselves to win at the game. I am secretly pleased that I am not drunk or teetering, even though I am forty-something and I still don’t have a clue how to play at love. But I have stopped running.

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Now that you are older that child like fearlessness has faded into the shadows and left you constantly looking over your shoulders wondering who is watching you and what are they saying. So the question is what would you do if you were not afraid? Would you do what it takes to live out your dreams? Would you set goals for yourself and stretch yourself beyond what you dreamed you were capable of doing? Would any rejection by anyone stop you from reaching new levels in your life?

If you were not afraid there is nothing that could keep you from that thing that you most desired in life. Not rejection nor isolation nor time because your mind is fixed on reaching your goal. You have to believe consistent effort daily will bring the desired results in a matter of time. Speaking of time patience is a virtue that we could all use a double dose of.

If you are not afraid then you will allow yourself time to make the mistakes and learn from them going from student to master. Life brings many challenges that we must learn to overcome before we get to the place called destiny. As you are going through life and you sense fear creeping its ugly head up ask yourself what would I do if I wasn’t afraid and go for it.
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Passionate about his roots, Ellis explains, “So many South Africans are dying of AIDS. South Africa is such a mess and you wonder if it’s ever going to become okay. No matter how bad it is right now, someday it’s going to be okay.” For more than 20 years, the turmoil in South Africa has made international headlines, yet Ellis finds that many Americans he encounters haven’t even heard of his home country. “Somebody asked us recently where we were from and we said, ‘South Africa’ and they’re like, ‘Oh, cool, what country?’ And we’re like, ‘No, no, South Africa. It’s actually a country,” he laughs.

Since finding success in this country after releasing their self-titled album on Inpop in 2000, Ellis and the rest of the band now reside in the United States. Yet their arrival in the states helped put the country of South Africa on the map for some in the Christian music world, “We’re the first South African band to come to the states. There were lots of firsts for us, back in the day. We were also the first South African band to win a Dove Award.” Now celebrating their tenth year together as a band as well as the release of their fifth album, Sunday!, Tree63 is far from home.

Despite his life in the U.S., Ellis can’t help but be struck by the poverty that still surrounds many in South Africa, “There’s big cities-all the stuff you would find in a big American or big European city. But just outside the city, there is a lot of real third world poverty. It’s a very strange mix of incredibly technological advancement and incredible poverty.” Yet South Africa’s white minority that has long controlled the government and its wealth has also made the country different from than of other countries on the continent. But Ellis is also concerned about the problems facing Christians in the United States and throughout other parts of the world.

“It’s very affluent, Christianity here. It’s great on one level. There are lots of Christians that are focusing on the fact that Christianity is meant to be about other people, not just us, so that’s good. Sometimes when there’s lots of money in the church, it tends to focus people on themselves,” shares Ellis. “All the culture around us focuses on improving yourself, thinking about yourself, and making you the center of attention. You’re getting bombarded with messages all the time-you, you, you!”

That’s where Tree63’s title track, “Sunday!” comes in-it’s a song that allows listeners to remember that there’s a bigger reality-one that’s not so far away. Based on the title of Tony Campolo’s famous sermon, “It’s Friday, but Sunday’s Coming”, the song “Sunday!” is about finding hope in the dark realities that are currently facing our planet. “People are just looking at the church and going, hey, you know what? It’s great to be a Christian and go to church on Sunday, but if that’s all there is, then that’s kind of boring. There must be more to following Jesus than being a cool looking Christian,” says Ellis, who adds that Christians need to realize that following Jesus also means being concerned about the poor, about the oppressed, and about our neighbors.

Yet he also sees a shift in how Christians are relating to others, “All around the world the church is starting to focus on social justice and social change-looking for ways that Jesus actually makes a change in people’s lives, not just gives them cool looking cars.” Tree63, known for their praise anthems, is shaking things up a bit with Sunday!, which has splashes of social commentary. “That’s a huge part of Tree63-not just being Christians, but being social advocates.”

When writing the songs for Sunday!, Ellis, an avid reader, was also digesting some of what he read in Shane Claiborne’s popular book, The Irresistible Revolution. “Shane and his book had a big impact on Tree63, and that’s a lot of the reason the new album sounds the way it does,” says Ellis. Then he adds with a laugh, “He probably doesn’t even know who Tree63 is.”

Yet there are many who do know who Tree63 is, especially in South Africa where the band is heralded by secular media, Ellis says, “We have a lot of big hits on mainstream radio. They know we’re Christian, but we’re more of a rock band.” Coming to the United States, Tree63 had ideas on what they thought success here would look like, but Ellis transparently admits, “We haven’t really been as successful in this country as we thought we’d be.

“Foolishness” is a poppy ballad that meditates on the seeming foolishness of God as compared to the false wisdom of man. Ellis reflects on the song, “Christianity is all about losing your life to gain it-it all seems backwards and upside down. That’s one of the huge parts of being a Christian-that we trust this unseen God and He proves himself in strange ways. It’s a real mystery. We have to trust God that wisdom is what He says it is.”

The theme of foolishness is continued in the song, “Not As the World.” One of the lines in the song, “I struck the rock with anger”, is especially poignant to Ellis, who alludes to the story of Moses striking the rock in the Old Testament, an act which cost Moses entrance into the Promised Land. “Moses is beating the crap out of the rock to try to get his own way, and God’s like, ‘Hang on, that’s not the way to do it’-even though that seems the most logical thing to do and God’s way seems foolish.”

The aforementioned song, “Alright”, is decidedly mellower than the rest of the album but also encompasses the overall theme of the album. “The bottom line is the reason we know it’s going to be okay is because our hope is in Jesus and we have faith in God. He won’t let stuff go on and on forever and ever. We have faith in a good God who’s fair and will one day sort it all out,” promises Ellis, who also says that album has a lot of “hang in there” songs. “We’re holding out for something that we know is going to come right eventually-that’s the key to the record.”

Even as Ellis considers the difficulties in his home country of South Africa and life here in the States, he muses that Sunday! is an album of hope in the present and excitement in future glory. He shares, “If you write a whole album moaning and groaning about how things suck, it won’t help anybody. It’s just going to reaffirm how bad stuff is, you know? As Christians, we need to have hope and have something to hold on to, to have something to believe in for the future or we’re all going to go crazy.” Tree 63 reminds us that Sunday’s not so far away, after all.
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